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You know, the last time I wrote, it was more of a bitching fest, this time will be different. Evidently I have failed to inform people about my plans in the future, so here it goes; list form!

~D and I are renewing our vows in the summer of 2013 in Finger Lakes, NY (as of right now). We're working on the details, but it feels that it's a beautiful place to start.

• D and I started off rather rough in our relationship. Lots of drama and even uncertainty for so many reasons that were never fully explained to people. He and I want a fresh slate with no unnecessary hurt or sadness.  

~D re-proposed to me a few weeks ago at the Rose Garden and gave a real proposal on bended knee.

• He stated, "You deserve at least one of these done right!" 
• When we got engaged, he asked me while laying in bed "So would you ever marry me?" I responded with, "Yeah, I believe I would." And bam, that was the proposal! LOL Romantic right? 

~I have switched my major of study to Early Childhood Development.

• I want to be around children and become a part of the community in helping children who aren't in a structured household. 
• I want to excel in this because I feel every child should have a "friend" to talk to, when everyone else has turned their back.
• I think this will also help me with understanding the thought process with Claire as she grows up also! Which in return will allow our bond to grow stronger!

~I begin working on the 28th of May for "The Bag"

• I'll be delivering coupons, flyers, advertisements etc., for local around the town grocery and dept. stores.
• I'll be getting paid to work out basically. 
• This'll give Claire and I something to do together. I told her that if she helps me bag the ads that I'll pay her for helping me out, therefore building herself a savings!
• It's only on the weekends, so I can still focus on my studies during the week and it'll give me something to occupy my brain instead of constant studying, and over doing myself for school.
• This job will allow me to save up some money so that my hubby and I can have a REAL honeymoon instead of a honeymoon w/ no money to do anything w/.
• This job will also help w/ making finances a little less strained around the house when needed. 

~Claire will be enrolled in Ohio Virtual Academy Homeschooling starting this fall!

• D and I have had enough with public schools and all of the bullying taking place within the school.
• Claire is getting picked on and punched by fellow classmates and nothing is being done about it, so now it's time for us to take action and make our child happy until we can get into a school district that isn't so ignorant to smart children who want to learn.
• There is a lot of problems with the city school system and the information that the kids are being taught is so behind that it's more draining for me as a parent and Claire as a student because it's too easy. I know that may sound odd, but honestly, it's very true! If a child can't advance then what's the point in dealing with all of the crap being dealt?
• Claire is looking forward to being home-schooled. She wants to be challenged and she's willing to work hard to make that happen for herself. 
• Sick days won't matter because she will be at home, not infecting other students with her every year sickness, which makes her take off from school for several days at a time if it's not monitored properly. 

~D, Claire and I

• We plan on moving. We can't stand being so close to creeps around here. We are surrounded by assholes who don't know how to behave themselves. They were obviously raised by animals, therefore turning into one themselves. We're pondering on where to move. At this point it's something that we're unsure of exactly, but we are looking past moving to MD. There is just so much crap going on there, that personally, it's not worth being IN MD. We'll likely move closer to MD, but far enough away to keep out of the drama mix. 
• We're all very happy! Things are looking better for us this year, even though there has been several changes for us over the past couple of months. Such as, D is going into Digital Design instead of Radiography. Claire getting home-schooled! And me, well, going into teaching instead of Medical Assisting. 
• Evidently I've pissed off some people for walking away from something I once thought was my heart. However, I've reconsidered and am doing things for ME, not everyone else! If you don't like my choices then you can either walk away now, or live to accept change in the same way I have. 
• This year is going to keep getting better! To those who want to step in and try to tell me how to live my life, please leave! I don't need your negativity thrown my direction and I don't want the bullshit that comes from you thinking my life is YOURS to run!

Well, I think that's about all! I believe everything that I've stated is pretty new news for some.
Thanks for reading!